A Nigerian woman has ignited intense debate on social media after a viral video showed her openly declaring a preference for men who cheat in relationships.
The clip, shared on X, captured the lady explaining that unfaithful partners motivate her to improve herself rather than feel complacent.
Speaking in Pidgin, she said she finds faithful men uninteresting and would walk away from a relationship if her partner remains loyal.
According to her, knowing a man is cheating pushes her to “do something about herself,” believing competition keeps her alert and driven.
She also stressed that honesty in infidelity matters more to her than secrecy, saying she would appreciate a partner who admits cheating rather than hides it.
The comments triggered mixed reactions online, with some users describing her views as a sign of emotional damage, while others mocked the statement or expressed concern about relationship values.
The video has continued to trend, fuelling wider conversations about fidelity, self-worth and modern dating expectations.
