A man has ignited online controversy after insisting that true masculinity involves financially providing for one’s girlfriend or wife.
In a viral video, he emphasised that men who are financially able should cover dates, trips, meals, and even personal care expenses for their partners.
“You can’t call yourself a man if you’re not paying for everything… If you have it, provide,” he said. He further advised men who are not financially stable to focus on self-development, saving, and building themselves up before entering relationships.
The statement has divided social media users. Some applauded the emphasis on responsibility and provision, while others criticised it as outdated and unrealistic.
Comments ranged from support for prioritising financial preparedness in relationships to dismissals of the view as “nonsense.”
The discussion has reignited debates about masculinity, provision, and evolving gender roles in modern Nigerian society.
