A Nigerian woman has ignited fierce debate online after posting an exhaustive list of expectations for her future husband (Husband Wishlist).
The tweet, shared on X, quickly went viral, prompting users to question whether her demands were realistic or just tongue-in-cheek.
According to the post, the woman laid out strict conditions for any man hoping to win her hand. Her requirements range from financial prowess to lifestyle restrictions, leaving many social media users stunned.
Among her stipulations, the man must be a virgin and earn a seven-figure income while still having unlimited free time. He must also be naturally handsome, with no gym-built body and no filters.
Financial responsibilities, she insists, fall solely on the man. “Pays all bills no 50/50,” she wrote, while also expecting him to know how to cook.
Her vision of the perfect partner extends into personal conduct: he must ask permission before going anywhere, be non-patriarchal, and take care of her parents as his own.
Digital boundaries are strict. He must not use social media, have no female friends, share his live location 24×7, and delete his entire past.
Emotionally, the man must be calm and available at all times. “Calm and ‘emotionally available’ 24×7,” she stated, adding that he should have zero ego and be fully healed from all trauma but never went to therapy.
Her full list reads:
“I will only marry a man who is:
A virgin
Earns 7 figures but still has unlimited free time
Naturally handsome (no gym, no filters)
Pays all bills no 50/50
Knows how to cook
Asks permission before going anywhere
Non-patriarchal
Takes care of my parents like his own
Doesn’t use social media
Has no female friends
Shares his live location 24×7
Deletes his entire past
Calm and ‘emotionally available’ 24×7
Has zero ego
Fully healed from all trauma but never went to therapy.”
