Nigerian singer Tems has stirred widespread conversation after remarks attributed to her about love and relationships in today’s society resurfaced online.
The statement, which gained traction on social media in 2026, reflects growing concerns about sincerity and emotional depth in modern dating culture, particularly among young people.
In the viral comment, the Grammy-winning artist suggested that many men lack genuine intentions in relationships.
“I don’t fall in love anymore because a lot of these men are very obvious, they don’t have any agenda, they just want to penetrate,” she said.
Although the timing of the remark remains unclear, similar views have been expressed by the singer in past interviews since her global rise around 2021.
Her comments have since triggered mixed reactions, with some supporting her stance as a reflection of reality, while others argue it generalises modern relationships.
