A Nigerian woman has sparked a lively online debate after advising women against giving their men money.
In a viral video, she emphasised, “I keep saying this, don’t give your man one naira… The only time you should give your man your coin is when he has invested so much in you.”
She clarified that “investment” means meaningful support, such as starting a business or acquiring properties for a woman, and any loan requested should be minimal compared to what he has contributed.
The clip prompted reactions from social media users, many agreeing with her stance. Imoh Titus noted, “A man must know when to receive money… they will remind you ‘after all I have done for you’.”
Temitope added, “Only give your husband money, not a boyfriend.”
Others discussed boundaries, financial responsibility, and how transactional dynamics can impact modern relationships, highlighting the need for careful consideration before providing financial support to partners.
