A Nigerian lady has shared how she reportedly lost the opportunity to marry a wealthy man, known as an Odogwu, after insisting he ask her permission before calling her.
The woman explained that their interaction began through text messages, where she requested his picture before sharing hers.
While the man eventually complied, the situation escalated the next morning when he called her repeatedly.
The lady, who had her phone on “do not disturb,” blocked him after he ignored her request for boundaries.
She said the block came despite her polite communication and lack of prior conflict. The incident left her frustrated, especially as her mother had encouraged her to entertain the man’s interest, believing he was suitable for marriage.
Ultimately, her insistence on personal boundaries reportedly ended the interaction, costing her a potential relationship with a wealthy suitor.
The story has sparked debate online about dating boundaries and respect.









