A Nigerian lady has stirred reactions online after revealing why she cancelled a planned date with a man she had recently met.
In a viral post, she explained that her decision was influenced by the man’s heavy family responsibility, which she felt could affect any future relationship.
According to her, the man is the sole provider for his three unemployed sisters, all of whom reportedly have children and are not actively seeking employment.
She said the situation raised concerns about long-term financial pressure, prompting her to step back from the relationship.
“He’s the breadwinner with three unemployed sisters that have kids, and all three show no interest in looking for a job. I cancelled the date,” she wrote.
The post has since sparked mixed reactions online, with some supporting her caution while others argued that his sense of responsibility should be seen as a strength rather than a red flag in dating decisions.