A Nigerian woman has stirred widespread controversy after a viral video showed her advising married women to engage in extramarital affairs as a coping mechanism for neglect in their relationships.
In the trending clip circulating across social media platform X, the unidentified speaker argued that having a “side man” could help women maintain emotional stability and personal happiness.
She claimed that many husbands fail to provide attention and care, urging women to seek fulfilment elsewhere rather than endure frustration in silence.
“A side man will save your marriage,” she repeatedly stated, insisting that such arrangements could help women “stay sane.”
The remarks have triggered intense debate online, with critics condemning the advice as immoral, while others pointed to underlying issues of emotional neglect in marriages.
The video continues to generate reactions, highlighting ongoing conversations about fidelity, communication, and expectations within modern relationships.